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Joy, Love, Life and Happiness... Здесь и сейчас...

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Доброго дня!

Bоскресного...

 

Пусть будет день сегодня - радостным...

 

 

Тема:

 

Жизнь... Весна... Радость...

Здесь и сейчас... 

 

Добро пожаловать!

 

* Свободная тема... 

 

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looking up

finally, i am feeling better. i don't know why it took me so long to realize that the simplest answer is the right one.

 

for weeks i have been stressed out at the fact that i probably should have never left her, even in such a disappointment. it took еще

finally, i am feeling better. i don't know why it took me so long to realize that the simplest answer is the right one.

 

for weeks i have been stressed out at the fact that i probably should have never left her, even in such a disappointment. it took me weeks where i could almost spend my entire days in bed, sulking at the misfortune. i spent hours in counselling. nevertheless, i said to myself that this may be bad but it doesn't mean that it's futile, and that i'm not gonna leave her for nothing. i'm gonna get better and come back, then i'll be able to give her what she deserves.

 

sometimes, the hardest lessons in life are best learned in recluse. these are the lessons that only we ourselves can learn from life. as far as my exeriences tell me, it's best to learn in blood, sweat, and tears. the scars only tell you how much you've learned, the wisdom you've had.

 

happiness is a choice. i'm not happy because she's out of system this time. i'm happy because i should be, because with or without anyone, we all deserve a little sunshine. life throws us everything and anything, but the choice is ours whether to feel the pain or hit back.

 

i'm happy, yes. ubt without you, it just ain't the same.

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kilig

Marami nakong naririnig na nagsasabing “Nakakamiss na ang ma in love”. Nag aagre naman ako 100%. Nakakamiss na yung feeling na kinikilig. Yung natural na kilig ah. Hindi yung pilit at hindi rin yung tipong kinikilig ka lang dahil sa napanuod mong movie or kung anuman nabasa mong love story. еще

Marami nakong naririnig na nagsasabing “Nakakamiss na ang ma in love”. Nag aagre naman ako 100%. Nakakamiss na yung feeling na kinikilig. Yung natural na kilig ah. Hindi yung pilit at hindi rin yung tipong kinikilig ka lang dahil sa napanuod mong movie or kung anuman nabasa mong love story. Yung talaga Live na kilig. Yung true-to-life. Hindi na kasi natin napapansin yung mga ganun na emosyon eh. Kasi ba naman, sa 24 oras na binigay ng Diyos sa isang araw, eh mahigit 12 oras ang ini spend natin sa work, the rest, sa mga worries or sa mga issues ng pamilya, sa friends, sa housemates o sa updates ng mga lovelife ng mga artista sa TV at most of the time sa Twitter, sa FB o kung anu anupang social networks. Hay. Kung may free time ka naman eh mas gusto mo na lang itulog. Kelan nga ba yung last time na kinilig ka?? Yung parang tumigil ang mundo mo. Yung di ka makahinga, tapos kahit na gutom na gutom ka na eh di mo na nararamdaman, bigla ka na lang nanghihina kasi di ka pa pala kumakain. Hehe! Di ba? Come on, relate na relate kayo sakin, Kahit In a relationship pa kayo ngayon o single. Nakakamiss. Gustong gusto mong maramdaman ulit ang feeling ng KINIKILIG. Kung minsan kasi di natin namamalayan, tayo na mismo yung tumataboy sa moment o sa feeling na ito.

Siguro, dahil UNA, ang walang kamatayang rason na BUSY AKO. Kapag busy ka nga naman, eh masyadong pre occupied ang utak mo. Kahit nga siguro mga tao sa paligid mo di mo na kilala eh, eh pano ka pa kaya magkakaroon ng kilig moments niyan. Lahat na ng atensyon mo eh nakapako na sa trabaho mo. Pressured ka na nga tensed ka pa. Palagi ka pang pagod. San na sisingit si Kilig niyan?? Kaya ang tendency, kapag nabobrought up ang kilig moment, kusa na siyang tinataboy ng isip natin. Nagsusumigaw na “Hay naku, magtigil. BUSY AKO!”

PANGALAWA. Umabot ka na sa sitwasyon na medyo nahihiya ka na. Na parang yung kilig moments eh parang pang High school lang. Di ka na masyadong nageexpect na may mararamdaman ka pang ganung kilig kasi nga uso nga lang yun sa High School. Ayaw mo ng magpakakeso. Nababaduyan ka na. Kahit ako, di ko alam kung pano magreact sa mga kesong linya na nauuso ngayon. Initial reaction mo pa eh nacocornyhan ka. Para kasing kapag pinatulan mo eh parang mas maiirita ka pa sa sarili mo. Ang cheeesssyyy!!

PANGATLO. Masyado ka ng negative sa mga nararamdaman mo na hindi mo na ito pinapansin. Dahil siguro sa mga pambobola o panloloko na naexperience mo na sa past. Di mo an sineseryoso kahit ang nararamdaman mo. O kaya nagkaroon ka na ng mentality na ang mga lalaki ay sadya lang talagang malalandi at mahaharot. Pa fall. Pa asa. Kaya ang epekto eh kapag pumapasok na ang kilig feeling sayo eh, tinatabla mo na kaagad ito. Binabanatan ka na kagad ng utak mo na, “feelingera ka, ikaw lang ang tinatamaan..” kaya ayun most of the time nababalewala ang moment. Kaaway mo pa ang sarili mo. At pwede din na ayaw mo lang masabihang baduy, madrama, emo o hopeless romantic. At lalo na, ayaw mong masabihan na feelingera. Nakakaasar kung minsan ang mga ganun. Makwento ka lang na kinikilig ka, kinokontra ka na kagad. Bitter. Kaya yan tuloy, nagiging bitter ka na rin.

 

PANG APAT. Siguro magaapply ‘to sa mga in a relationship na ang status. Pati na rin sa mga married. Opinyon ko lang to ah. I’m not in a relationship ngayon eh, mas lalo nang hindi ako married. Base lang to sa mga kwento-kwento ng mga kaibigan ko na ganun na ang status. Masyado na daw kasing nasasanay sa sitwasyon. Sanay ng magkasama, na magkausap, na nawawalan na daw ng excitement yung relationship. Sa katunayan, yung linyang ‘nakakamiss na ang feeling na kinikilig’ eh nanggaling sa isa kong kaibigan na almost 5 years ng in a relationship. Pati na rin sa mga married. Meron pa silang linya na, ‘Yes I am loving but I am not in Love.’ Siguro tinutukoy nila yung high feeling na being in love. Relate naman ako. Kaya nga sabi, di ba nga ng mga lumilipad na advice, sa mga magboypren/gerlpren at sa mga mag asawa, always make an effort na hindi daw mamatay yung spark between the two of them. Kaya kung minsan siguro namimiss na nila yung feeling ng kinikilig kasi unti unti ng natutupos ang apoy. Haha!

PANG LIMA. Wala ka sa mood. Tinatamad ka. Gusto mo palagi mapag isa. At higit sa lahat, masyado kang nagpapantansya ng ideal na pagkakataon na hindi mo na napapansin na may kilig moments na pala sa paligid mo. Kasi nga nakafocus ka dun sa idea mo na gusto ko ganito, gusto ko ganyan. Tapos magrereklamo ka na di ka kinikilig. You’re already losing the power of spontaniety. Saka di ka naman talaga kikiligin kung from the start eh alam mo na ang mangyayari, o kaya ay sinet up mo na yung standard mo na ‘eto ang mga bagay na makakapagpapakilig sakin’. Wala ng breathtaking moment yun. Wala ng element of surprise na mahalaga sa isang kilig moment. Hihi!

Anyway, kahit anupaman na sitwasyon. Masarap pa rin ang feeling ng kinikilig. Masarap iimagine na kinikilig ka lalo na kapag nakakarinig ka ng mga love songs, o nakakakita ka ng mga sweet moments sa mga sikat na tao o sa pelikula, na winiwish mo na sana ikaw din, makaexperience ng ganun.

 

Ako naman, umaasa pa rin ako na darating ang ultimate kilig moment para sakin. Na lahat ng iniimagine ko na makakapagpatigil ng mundo ko ay higit pa sa ibibigay ng moment sakin. Yung di ka makapaniwala na nangyayari yun, di ka makapaniwala na siya yung nasa harapan mo. Di mo alam kung tatawa ka o iiyak. Di ka makagalaw, di ka makahinga, di ka makapagsalita, ang kaya mo lang gawin ay titigan siya. Yung feeling na yun na yung hinihintay mo sa buhay mo kaya ayaw mo ng pakawalan. Wala ka ng pakialam kung baduy, o kung ano ang sinasabi ng utak mo o anuman ang sinasabi ng mundo. Basta ang alam mo ayaw mo ng umalis sa moment na yun. Ayaw mong mawala kung anuman ang nararamdaman mo. Gusto mo lang siyang yakapin. Di mo na kayang magsalita pa ng ‘I love you’ kasi di na sapat ang I love you para idefine yung moment.

Haaay. Sarap ulit ma In love. *KILIG* 

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Dear myself

Dear You,

It feels really stupid thinking about you, let alone writing to you who only exists in my head. So even though I try my very best not to be one of those silly girls who writes letters to “the man I will someday love,” please know I never еще

Dear You,

It feels really stupid thinking about you, let alone writing to you who only exists in my head. So even though I try my very best not to be one of those silly girls who writes letters to “the man I will someday love,” please know I never doubted your existence.

I, too, had wished for a prince charming to come and sweep me off my feet. But certain circumstances had led me to believe, at a very young age, that girls should be smart too and never let a charming young man get the better of her. Because of this, you should know, that if you decide to pursue me, it might not be that easy. Just like in fairy tales, I have many demons you need to fight off in order to get to me. Don’t worry. My demons are only too big for me to handle. But for you, they will be small (and maybe even funny looking). I have no doubts that you will successfully arrive in my castle unscathed.

Thirty years into this life, you still have not come and rescued me. I’ve met a couple of princes who look like you and seem like you but who just broke my heart. They made me stronger. Strong enough to fight some of the demons that locked me away in this castle myself. But I still believe in you. I still have dreams of you, faceless and nameless, coming into my life and just blowing me away with your perfection. You will be the prince charming that the other silly girl who wrote that other silly letter talked about. But unlike that other girl, I do want to be your perfect princess. I will take this time preparing for your arrival. I will comb my hair a hundred times, scrub the castle floors until they shone, visit my fairy godmother once a week for a make-over, even practice my Disney songs. I will be as perfect as I can get. For you will be God’s perfect little gift to me. I do not know you right now but I am very close to the Big Guy above and I know He wants me to be at my very best when I meet you. You will be the man I will someday love. I know that. I must say, though, that I am not in a hurry to meet you. For while you are out there scurrying to become that man, I, too, am becoming the woman you will love for the rest of your life. I plan to take my time for I don’t want us to become one of those couples who wanes when faced with the challenges of life. I will patiently wait for you and I hope you will wait for me too.

Me

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kamalayan

so far, there are only two lethargic people under my counsellor, me being one. normally, this only occurs when i really am on a  tight sched, into something, or stressed out. coming from a hard time recently, getting into something isn't really in my mind right now. despite the fact еще

so far, there are only two lethargic people under my counsellor, me being one. normally, this only occurs when i really am on a  tight sched, into something, or stressed out. coming from a hard time recently, getting into something isn't really in my mind right now. despite the fact that i still do try and drown myself in a lot other things just to leave out any possibility of missing her, it's not like i engaged in something for the fun of it. even my tight schedule isn't enough at times to get this pain out of my chest; so most likely, i am stressed.

 

following my previous post, things have been looking up. right now, she's happy. she should be; which means that we're no longer under the influence of emotional alcohol. even better, she misses me already. it has been a week since she made it public, howbeit, i haven't really given much thought to it being half dum, half busy myself. But since then, i really haven't had a day without drowsing in front of my professors, so i go see my counsellor for some answers.

 

it's all over. me and her, and i'm all over it. the both of us have come to accept that we both were stupid, in the end. she's none of my problems anymore, or so i hope she's not.

 

there are times that we become so attached to a person that they change us ultimately. they become an integral part of ourself such that they define us already.

 

my time here in the university has been a very humbling experience. all the things i was before i got here, they're all gone. the power, the fame, nothing. i have lost many things gaining the wisdom and the consciousness of the things greater than me. she was the only one i had, only to be taken away eventually. having nothing left in me, it now comes back to the most important question. if happiness is a choice, what do i choose? para kanino na nga ba ako bumabangon?

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parang tayo na walang commitment (bawal magselos at magalit dahil di nga talgang tayo)

Minsan na akong nalagay sa isang kumplikadong estado pagdating sa pag ibig. Pinili kong maging kami pero hindi rin naging kami. Ito yung tipong walang commitment but the two of you are acting like there is. In short, malabong sitwasyon. Yes, I really don't know why I chose to be еще

Minsan na akong nalagay sa isang kumplikadong estado pagdating sa pag ibig. Pinili kong maging kami pero hindi rin naging kami. Ito yung tipong walang commitment but the two of you are acting like there is. In short, malabong sitwasyon. Yes, I really don't know why I chose to be in that kind of relationship. Mahal niyo ang isa't isa. Yun lang. And you pretend that you are officially together. Bilang isang babae, ang hirap ng ganitong sitwasyon. Ang hirap na hindi ka mag demand.

"Good morning! I love you!" "Hi! Eat your breakfast na."

Tapos siya? Oo, wala lang . Deadma sa mga text mo. Maiinis ka. But remember, you can't demand. Mababaliw ka na sa kakahintay ng txt niya.

At ng magtext, "Cge po kaw din ha." Wow! wow lang. Eh ang reply mo naman, "Awwww. okay po. Sorry makulit. Miss na kasi kita eh." Mahusay. Napakahusay ng mga pangyayari. But that's it. That's how everything works between the two of you. And when the time comes that everything turns upside-down, wala na. Nawala na lang bigla. Parang kabuteng sumulpot at bulang biglang nawala.

"MASASAKTAN BA AKO O HINDI?"

Ano nga ba yung dapat mong maramadaman? Pipiliin mo bang umiyak, magalit o pabayaan na lang ang lahat? Magpakamanhid k ba o kakausapin siya dahil nasaktan ka? May karapatan ka nga ba? MASAKIT. Pero sinong masisisi mo? Hindi nga ba't ikaw din mismo ang may gustong maging ganyan kayo? Sa isang malabong sitwasyon at oo, sa kahit ano pa mang pinapsaok mo, wala kang ibang kakampi kung hindi ang sarili mo. Hindi lahat ng taos a paligid mo, maiintidihna ja. Hindi lahat kaya kang intindihin. Sa bawat sakit, ikaw ang gagawa ng lunas. Maging matatag. Kumapit ka. Lumaban. Para kanino ba yun? Hindi ba't para sa'yo din?> Hindi ba't para sa puso mo yan? Siguro nga , tanga ka. Siguro nga, hindi ka nag iisip. Siguro nga mali ang pinasok mo. Masyado kang nagpadalos dalos. Pero nagmahal ka at walang mali dun. Masasaktan ka, sigurado. Matutong lumaban at tumayo; maging masaya sa kanila ng sakit ng nararamdaman. Para sa iyo, para sa sarili mo at higit para sa puso mong nagmahal at nasaktan.

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Nineteen

If you are reading my profile, you'll know that I am who I claim to be in the photo, but my real name, and everything personal is not there. Mamboo said it's my birthday today. Well, not exactly. I jumbled my dad, my mom and my brother's birthday - so, еще

If you are reading my profile, you'll know that I am who I claim to be in the photo, but my real name, and everything personal is not there. Mamboo said it's my birthday today. Well, not exactly. I jumbled my dad, my mom and my brother's birthday - so, it's really not my birtthday. But thanks anyway for those who greeted me.

 

It may not be my birthday but I get to do something quite extraordinary. I happened to organized a garage sale today together with my church friends. It might be tiring but seeing those men, women, and kids who happened to buy what we used before and still seeing that smile on their faces, it trully takes any tired feeling - it took my breath away. I smiled. I even cried a little. Seeing those people enjoying what I used to enjoy makes me part of who they are now. 

 

Happy birthday, Andi - even though it's really not your birthday at all.

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10 Habits Of People Who Follow Their Dreams

People who are true to their purpose and are really successful didn’t always get there because they had the financial means to do so or were just lucky enough to have been brought up in a confidence boosting environment. There are actually a few common habits that have helped them еще

People who are true to their purpose and are really successful didn’t always get there because they had the financial means to do so or were just lucky enough to have been brought up in a confidence boosting environment. There are actually a few common habits that have helped them get to where they are. The best part is that these are habits that anyone can attain!

 

1. They see challenges as opportunities

Most people interpret fears as obstacles and tend to run away from them. People who live their purpose successfully have developed the capacity to see fear as a sign of what they really need to go for and put all their courage and energy into it.

 

 

2. They see life as a game.

Having this vision of life opens up space for playfulness and creativity instead of limitation. This also cultivates qualities of resilience, problem solving and confidence that helps them take risks to get to the next big place.

 

 

3. Living the life they want is the only option.

They're so committed to making their dreams a reality that they banish any possibility of a backup plan whatsoever from their mind. They don't think things like, “If it doesn’t work, I’ll just go get a job."

 

 

4. They always speak their truth.

They're able to speak it because they make a conscious effort to connect to their truest desires, their inner voice, and their spirituality without fear of judgment. This connection is typically fostered through meditation, journaling, being mentored and being surrounded by like minded-people.

 

 

5. They aren't just dreamers: they act on their desires.

Instead of getting stuck in their dreams, they snap right into action, no matter what it takes. Whether it's quitting a job, getting out of a relationship that holds them back, investing in themselves or moving to a new location, they have the courage to do it. They do this by listening to, and then acting on, their intuition.

 

 

6. They expect and know that they deserve the best.

They expect that what they want is going to happen as if it were an inner-knowing. They expect and feel they deserve to earn well, do what they love, serve others using their gifts. The secret is that they still expect the best even when they don't have all the answers as to how it's going to happen.

 

 

7. They have no fear or guilt when asking for what they want.

Because they're so connected to their passions, they aren't afraid to ask for what they want. In fact, they understand that their success depends on others, so asking for what they want is part of the deal. They set their boundaries and express their needs without fear, guilt or shame. Best of all, this is a trait that earns them respect from others.

 

 

8. They create their own rules.

They create their own rules instead of fitting into society's norms. They make decisions from a place of what they want to have instead of what they think they can have. This gives them the freedom to design their destiny.

 

 

9. They've learned to be comfortable being uncomfortable.

They don’t get stuck in having all the answers, making things perfect or trying to gain comfort by controlling everything. Instead, they're aware that they're not going to see the next step until they make the decision to move forward despite the discomfort.

 

 

10. They have teachers, mentors and role models.

Having teachers increases their awareness. They clearly understand that each time they're getting ready to pursue their dreams all their limitations are going to come up to the surface so that they can let go of them. Having role models and mentors helps them quickly identify where they're stuck so that they can immediately change their results.

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